[+2,832, -32] It’s cold today, dress warmly on your way to heaven. You worked hard.
i’m heartbroken and i fell like i shouldnt have the right to use this word because am not someone who was close to jonghyun but i’m heartbroken.
i can’t do anything about recent event that took time but i just hope that he’s in better place now, that someone is telling him how much of an amazing person he was and how many amazing things he habe done for people.
i hope he’s finally happy, he escaped all the bad things and now it’s just paradises.
i know my words won’t change anything but i just wanted to write something since my heart hurt so bad and i’ve been crying so long, i just want people to see this so i will feel like i told someone how i feel.
if you’re struggling please remember you’re not alone, asking for help is the bravest thing you can do so plewase don’t be scared of being judged, we all go through a lots of things, and please remember that my question box is always open, you can just tell me about your day or say what is bothering you, i will listen to you because i guarantee to you that we’re not that different from each other :)
[+2,832, -32] It’s cold today, dress warmly on your way to heaven. You worked hard.
we all have different ways of grieving. if you need to reblog music and quotes and photos to grieve, do that. if you need to send messages asking for help or giving encouragement to others, do that. if you need to make an edit or write a text post expressing your grief, do that. if you need to close this app, put your phone on silent, and go back to bed, do that.
but please, please don’t feel hopeless. please don’t feel like this is the end. don’t let all of jonghyun’s words of encouragement and love be overshadowed by this darkness. i’m here for you, we are all here for you. please don’t leave too.
For all the people who didn’t know him… Jonghyun was everything you could wish for in and idol and more. Beyond his talent, no one could talk to him without gushing about what a good person he was. He was just that lovable and kind. Jonghyun was always outspoken about mental health, lgbtq rights, and inequality. He was always the first one to cry, but he was also always the first one to laugh. He poured his soul into composing and writing music. He suffered from insomnia, but always gave 100% energy on the stage. He liked silly jokes, ballads, and staying indoors. He had one of those voices that could make you cry just by listening to it. He was so kind, gentle, open, and talented. His life was short, but I won’t ever be able to forget him.
To all those affected by the news of Jonghyun’s passing, please take the time to grieve. Talk to people, cry if you need to, work to process all your emotions and just grieve. Don’t bottle up your feelings, let the sorrow out of your heart in whatever way you can so that it may become lighter again.
Be patient and kind and respectful. Treat others well, no matter how they react to this. Honour Kim Jonghyun’s memory, his accomplishments and his life.
